The Yeti Project is a blog intended for the support of our own yeti, and my husband, Cleve. Cleve is currently battling stage IV melanoma. This is a place where you can check on his status or lend your support. I hope you find it helpful and inspiring as we embark on this long journey of healing
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Well, it seems no two days are the same. Yesterday Cleve was awake for a good portion of the day and today he slept most of it. It was difficult to get him to take his medication because he was so asleep, and that also made it hard for him to swallow. He did wake up in the evening when his oncologist stopped by to see how he is doing. It was such a nice surprise. Unfortunately, later in the evening he had some anger issues which seems to be yet another side effect of the cancer. Damn cancer. But in between these instances we get to see little glimmers of Cleve here and there. Denise, the hospice nurse came by the house today as well and it is always a pleasure to see her. She has a very comforting, soothing nature. We reviewed Cleve's medications, noted the drastic difference between yesterday and today, and she also noticed that his breathing is starting to slow down as well. Because of this, as I said before in my last post, we are limiting visitors. I think what me and my fellow caregivers have decided is that if you are notified, you are welcome to visit for a short amount of time, otherwise we ask for your understanding and cooperation in helping us create the most quiet, comfortable environment as possible for Cleve to finish out his days. I'm sure this is disappointing to some of you, and I am truly sorry, but he most likely won't remember your visit, and I would like you all to remember him as he was. As always, the tremendous out pouring of love and support has been phenomenal and we thank you so much.
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We love you guys so much and completely understand. Please give him a kiss for us. Love forever and Always Jim, Rachelle and Katelyn
ReplyDeleteI work with Cleve, and as I am saddened that I will never say farewell, or had the chance to visit while he was in the hospital, It is comforting when I think about Cleve; I picture him as an always smiling, big man who was easy to banter with. And he was always so kind to his patients. Thank you, Katie, for keeping us all updated.
ReplyDeleteCleve, you have always been an inspiration. Although our paths have not crossed in many years you need to know how much I admire you. Your drive and tenacity to be the best. Whether it was basketball, bass guitar, or your academics you practiced and worked hard to be the best. You need to know I always appreciated and admired you. I cherish our Happy Camp days and being able to grow up together. Cleve you need to know how you have influenced me and those around you. I am praying for you and think about you often. Keep fighting my friend. Your friend Cris Everett
ReplyDeleteCleve, I want you to know many friends that you haven't heard from in a long time have you and your family in their prayers. Your presence in high school was large and vibrant and not just because you towered over everyone. When I think about you and your big smile, so many great memories flood through. Thank you for being my friend when I really didn't know what that meant. Know that you are loved and cherished by many.
ReplyDeleteFriends forever, Crystal (Walent) Mills